Me And my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year and three months.
I was the stereotypical teenager, thinking i was "in love". I know now that I love him as my best friend, but I'm not IN LOVE with him.
well, for the last few months, it's just been fighting.
I tried to break up with him last week. I decided I needed to focus on Upward Bound [it's a college program to help me for my future]. Well, I decided that I needed to that, and that I needed to think about if our relationship was really worth all the troubles along with it. Now, I'm not saying it was all on him, but when you have someone who's more passive and you have someone who is controlling, well, that doesnt really mix well. He always claims I"m not worth the bullshit, and that I'm ruining his life.
Anyways, i tried to break up with him, and he STARTED CRYING. like.. bawling. He told me that he loves me and that I should stop trying to decide what will make him happy.
So we talk. And for the last 6 days, we've been fine. Laughing, joking, and having fun like the old days. Last night, he's all moody, and wont tell me whats bothering him. Today, he hasnt talked to me at all. I've called, texted, and tried to get ahold of him. I don't know.

I'm not saying just because of one day, I should finish what I tried to start last week, but suddenly after just a week, he's back to his old self.. saying "whatever" to anything I say, ignoring me when I'm trying to be sweet/nice, being closed off and slightly hostile.

I'm just wondering if these are the early stages of something, or if I just fell into another trap?
Anyone thats been through this?
Some feedback would be nice.
Thanks!